THE WHIMPER- LONER

                         Chester Ian S. Pineda

                                  (June 8, 2013)

“A friend in need is a friend indeed.”- English Proverb 

He who seeks shadows for life tends to be the greatest friend one has ever had. I have been existing for 15 years, yet, numerous wonders still bugging me of why having a friend is very essential in one’s crucial stage- which is the growing stage.  Is having a friend necessary to a person who experiences problem, like you?

Well, if you are in alone and still searching for a friend whom you can share your insights and sentiments, no need to worry because the person where you feel free to open up your feelings with is already a friend of yours. But, not all recipients whom you’ve shared your feelings were concerned around your emotions. Some just do the so-called “pa as if” but deep inside didn’t care. There I started to hide what I’d feel inside for I was petrified to and if I did; it would be wasted if he just didn’t worry. Worthless. So, better be silent.

Hence, I realized that being still springs seasonal attribution on social aspect of a loner, and later result confusion to those who already knew him.  These made them thinking that you had changed and need no friend anymore for you often do stupid things alone by yourself without engaging them.

Those who have insecurities about their looks, personalities, and have taught friendless in life, pursue to acquire high self-esteem and throw off all insecurities in order to develop better dealt.

At the end, you’ll just be noticed that those who accept you as sheer you are ones that truly deserved to be your shadow. Friends are essential. For life would be of isolation without them. But if you haven’t found yet your shadow, do value people who love and care for you because friendship starts with cherishing persons dearest to you.

A friend is always willing to give way and give another chance notwithstanding any sin for true friend really cares. Unwillingness of a friend to forgive despite the wickedness you’ve done is not a friend certainly.

Better not search for friends, instead wait for ones who’ll search for you. Friend seekers were probably the best friend you would have for they were really committed to share their life and willing to give the best compassion that they could.

Don’t let loneliness reign in you. You are not born to be alone. You have a friend who has been waiting for your closed door to be opened. He won’t leave you no matter what will happen. Problems are normal. We would grow restored if we tried to explore it… just hold on… give Him a worth because He is an epitome of stunned companionship. In 15 years of my existence, I have enlightened that I was never been alone; Jesus is with me and with you too, for He is our friend in need, our friend indeed!